My Daughter's in the Congo














Sounds kind of romantic doesn't it? To her mother... not so much. She's kind of worried. I'm not really so much worried as I am unsorted (best adjective I could come up with) with thoughts of this 20-yr-old kid -- my kid -- who's been to 3 airports, I think, in a day or so and she's still not done. She's in Amsterdam as we speak. That's not why I'm unsorted in my head and in my heart.

I keep having these pictures of a little kid (my kid) in my mind. One of them is of a 3-yr-old sitting in a car-seat in our '86 Jetta asking me some pretty interesting questions like:

"Do you have a girl-friend?"
ME: "Ya, Mommy's my girl-friend."
EMILY: No, Mommy's your wife. Do you have a girl-friend?"
ME: "Mommy's my wife and my girl-friend."
EMILY: "Daddy..."
ME: "What?"
EMILY: "Put your seat-belt on."
ME: "Okay."

Flashbacks like this one are mixed with thoughts of this young adult kid (my kid) finding her way in the world.

I hope she has a great, enriched, blessed time in the Congo. And safe. Very safe. I also can't wait for her to finally be back. She's been gone since September '09. She's visited regularly, but won't be back long-term until the middle of June. Well, "long-term" as in a couple of months before she goes back to Waterloo, but we'll take it!

I have some thoughts about the middle of June. They primarily involve Starbucks and Sushi with the little kid who's no longer a little kid. She'll always be my daughter, but she's become a really good friend now too.

I love you Emily.

Faja


Comments

  1. Matt_SarahMay 8, 2010 at 10:09 PM

    Well put Rocco! (Love the name by the way!). So I can relate to your fond memories of your daughter with one difference. Mine is only 7 and we are just having these conversations. Just today she came downstairs with her duvet cover on her head calling "Daddy, I'm stuck, I'm stuck..." Translation: Come play with me. I tickled her to death.

    Anyway, I just want to say that I too have enjoyed getting to know Emily. She is a great girl with very deep heart. She will be swept away by the children I think. My thoughts for her include her being given the opportunity to really come face to face with God's plan for her. Don't we wish that for our children?

    I will be praying for her. And I do feel a certain amount of responsibility for her going to Congo (although God takes most of the blame for that). So don't tell her mother!

    Blessings,

    Matt Peters
    Access Ministries, Glencairn Church

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